Monday, October 09, 2006

Heroics in the pool



This is about my heroics as a water polo player...naah I'd be honest I'm not bragging....u'll know modesty is my second name :)
In this particular post I'd write about a legendary water polo match that I played for my club against P.M Hindu Bath (charni road)...

Well why legendary you may ask?? Its bcoz, my moment of glory came when my goal in the last minute of the match WON the match for my team!!

It was an U-17 match I played for Nirlon swimming pool (mumbai) against much fancied rivals P.M Hindu Bath Mumbai in the year 1991. This match was supposed to be a cake-walk for our opponents because they were better swimmers with a team-coach to train them et al....our victory against them is all the more laudable in this light!!

After the 3rd quarter they were leading 6-5 on us and in the last 5 minutes, we were tied at 6 all. At the half line we got a foul in our favour and I broke free, somehow mustering all the stamina, sprinting towards the goal and got a decent pass...I swam with the ball till the 4 mtr mark and stood to take a shot.. The goalie got overconfident and it gave me all the more reason to crush his cockiness. He had the goal-post covered and wanted me to shoot as hard as I could, but I had other ideas......I kept my cool and put a lob (the best that I have ever put)....the ball curved down beautifully high over the goalie's reach and into the net....the whole of the stadia burst into applause!!! I raised my fist several times in adrenalin pumping manner and shouted loud "yayyyyyy come on"....the entire team was ecstatic and patted me...our senior team members too we present and applauded my goal... THIS WAS MY MOMENT OF GLORY!!

After the goal there were approximately 40 seconds left in the match and we managed to hold on to our lead and win the match!!

In the shower/change room senior players from other teams like Indian Navy, Deccan Gymkhana (pune), MGMO (dadar) et al passing by me congratulated me saying "nice lob"....It felt awesome to be applauded by such gr8 players...

Till this day that memory has remained etched in my mind. Many years from now, I'd still remember it and one day tell my kid about it!! lil senti ha!!

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

26/7 ...heroics of "rainy tuesday"

This is about the "rainy tuesday" as we bombayites have named it (26th july 2005).

I had posted this on some other blog but didn't get time to do it here.....darn, better late than never...me and a colleague's heroics of the day!!


The weather bureau as usual didn't forecast a cloud-burst or heavy rains for this day. It seemed like just another rainy day, as i reached my office in Andheri(east) dry. At around 12:30 noon it started to pour like mad. We all saw small streams of water turning into flood inside half an hour and this was just the beginning.

Initially all thought that it was heavy rain alright and that it would subside in an hour or so, but no, it just kept pouring. To add fuel to fire (well contrary to the situation), the electricity went off. Most of us at the office were then headed to the conference room to play ping-pong!!
Time passed by....few colleagues who stay far off in Thane area left in a colleagues car... only to return after some time....the reason being all the roads were choked. The pre-monsoon harakiri done by BMC and MUIP in the name of road-widening is the primary reason for this mess, i must say.


It started to get darker so I decided to make a move to home at around 5 P.M. Me, Melvin, Parthiv and Ketan left the office after trying to convince Jiten, Bala, Saple and co to do the same. It was a deluge of water and people alike on the roads beginning at MIDC. The flow of water was so much that one could easily get drifted by it. I wondered how deadly was the flow of tsunami. I being an expert swimmer felt like this then how about a layman?

We reached highway and decided to go via Andheri flyover to avoid the station road in the east. The local motor mechanics were having a field day catering to hordes of bikes and cars affected by the flood-water. The traffic cops were far and few and so the traffic never really moved. Looking at the chaos I wondered what would happen if a man-made calamity (like a bomb scare) were to strike at this time. Man, this was scary.

In the mean time we reached andheri flyover where Ketan and Parthiv went home. Me and Melvin continued our adventure ahead. Andheri west station road was real bad. The fire-brigade had come in and were not allowing people to go towards the subway as it was under water by then. We tried to guage the water level and found it impossible to go ahead. A local uncle, who was suggesting alternative routes, suggested to go on the tracks or go via cama road that leads to Bhavans college. At this point I thought of taking the tracks but somehow couldnt leave Melvin on his own. So I decided to take the other long route.

On the way to Bhavans, Sami called me up (I remember, he had left his office at Crystal plaza at 3:00). He was stuck at the road leading to the station. Since I had seen the scenario there, I adviced him to stay there in the building till the situation improves. If Sami were somewhere near, I would have picked him up.

This route we took passes though slums. On our way down towards Bhavans, it started to pour like mad, the water falling from the roofs of the houses on both sides......total darkness added to our woes. I told Melvin that this was straight out of some Jackie Chan movie. We were constantly ruing the fact that we left office, but I kept on assuring Melvin that we will reach home safe.
Outside Bhavans it was pitch dark and the water was thigh-high. I looked towards the sky and prayed to Almighty that it stopped raining and we reach home safely. Now, bhavans campus is quite big and to cross it in darkess and 3 feet of water was a herculean task. Only lightening used to bighten up the surroundings and we could see our way. It felt like humanity in dark ages...and we were on a "migrate to survive" trip....all at Almighty's mercy. So much flooding only in few hours of rain was unheard of.

Midway though Bhavans campus we found people volunteering to guide the passers by, since the flow of water coming into the campus could easily take anyone into its rift. At the gate of Wadia school there was absolute chaos. People had to pass from a narrow lane to come into or leave the campus. The flow of water from the gutter adjoining the road was so much that it was difficult to cross, even the few meters, without a rigid support. It was a stampede of sorts as the people coming in and the people going out clinged on to each other to pass by. The localites had tied a rope for the people to cling onto while crossing. Melvin lost and recovered his bag twice and slipped twice in the melee.


On the road to 4 bungalows, vehicles were stranded and abandoned, the water level was waist-high. My jeans was sticking to my skin and the heavy water that we had to walk though was killing me. My jeans weighed one ton!! People were still inside BEST buses on the road hoping for the roads to clear and traffic move ahead, albeit in vain. Hordes of people were still trying to go towards Andheri station, not knowing what dangers lie ahead. The water level gradually decreased towards 4 bungalows bcoz of water escaping to the barren land belonging to AAI. We reached outside Melvin's place, all tired and exhausted. The vehicles coming from Lokhandwala complex informed us that the situation at Link road was bad, so I decided to stay at Melvin's place for the night.

This day was the worst day, without doubt, in Bombay's history. Several hundred crores of losses were suffered. Hundred plus people lost their lives in the maddening rains. The mental trauma is unfathomable though.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

Of apologies and infuriating quotes

Muslims the world over are angry over the remarks made by head of the church Pope Benedict XVI. In his speech, the pope quoted 14th-century Byzantine emperor Manuel II Paleologus who said: "Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached."
Now, nobody thought a neanderthal named "Manuel II Paleologus" ever existed in this world and least of all the things, what he did and said in his time. So to quote such infuriating words was uncalled for...and that too from the head of the church and not a lesser mortal like us!!

Apparently the offending remarks were almost a footnote to the pope's speech… But it seems some elements in the Muslim world are looking avidly for something to offend them. Meanwhile, governments looking to boost their Islamic credentials are only too happy to seize on this, or nurture it, for their own political advantage.....which is ridiculous!!

People the world over opined that the pope should be more tolerant and judicious in choice of words and quotes....as a pious man with great humility and tolerance befitting his title..
The vatican and later the pope himself tendered several apologies for having hurt the sentiments of muslims...

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

Inspire to achieve!!

Rajat's World:
Well, sometimes we inspire ourselves to achieve the unachieved. Yet at times we are far from inspirational.
But inspiration was not in vain today!!! My friend Rajat took up blogging and it took me only a few honest words to pursue him!!
Thats the power of persuation!!

Rajat's the kind of guy with whom u enjoy every moment. He's an honest and clean-hearted person, very rare quality to find!!

So here's welcoming him to the blogging fraternity!!

Done with gymming

Novocaine for the soul
Hmm, so cool of me and Mel to have started gymming with so much enthu and all.....too bad that we left it after a month itself!! can u beat that!!
gosh, we both had planned to utilise this gym as a preparation for serious physique-building, but somehow we both screwed it up.....dammit!!
We had even seen a good gym in andheri-west fer that....dunno when we got engrossed in werk and things just slipped outta hands...
My triceps had started to take shape, just as it used to be , curvy n all, when I used to swim !! I was getting into that competent mould and was keen to continue gymming and join swimming as well and get back my drool physique back (I love myself, thats y the name "Narcissus").....
Aaaaaaarrrrrrrrgh blame it on the rain (Milli Vanilli song)

I'm back

Back to blogging:-
hello all,
I'm back to blogging after a long hiatus of aroung 6 months!!
I've loved blogging ever since I read the first blog....twas Stephanie Klein I guess..
She was one of the first ones to make public her daily experiences.....the fluidity and no nonsense language of hers is what I like. After her there have been a rise in her clan of female "bare-all" bloggers!! Somehow I find too much resemblance in all of these blogs........one common thing being "I dont care" kinda, typical american attitude.
hmm enough about them, I'll post a series of topica on things I've been upto in these 6 months......
so cya and happy blogging!!

Thursday, January 19, 2006

Things I've learnt


I believe that every incidence teaches u some way or the other... here are few compiled from various sources....

I’ve learnt -that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learnt - that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I’ve learnt - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learnt - that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learnt - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I’ve learnt - that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learnt - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learnt - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learnt - that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I’ve learnt - that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learnt - that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learnt - that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learnt - that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learnt - that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learnt - that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learnt - that sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learnt - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learnt – that, just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I’ve learnt - that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I’ve learnt - that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learnt - that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and each you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

I’ve learnt - that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learnt - that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learnt - that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I’ve learnt - that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learnt - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I’ve learnt - that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learnt - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learnt - that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learnt - that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I’ve learnt - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learnt - that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learnt - that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learnt - that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe..

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

Gym at last ...

After much RnD, delay and all that we finally joined a gymnasium. Yesterday was the first day. My whole upper body is aching today......ooh ouch!!!
Its been such a long time since my golden days (well for those who dont know......I used to gym, swim and practise triathlon.....all in a day...more on that later in some other post :) ).......and now lifting 2 pound dumbell seemed like a ton and 10 dips seemed like eternity!!!
The gym instructor was hell-bent upon doing all the routines with all the instruments until I pleaded him to stop and that my body was getting stiff......enuff for the first day!!!

Monday, January 16, 2006

Novocaine for the soul.

Hi All,

This is my first post here. Since I dont have anything as yet to post so I'll quote few lines from my favourite english songs. Pay attention to words in bold below...quite touchy!!

1) Novocaine for the soul - by Eels

Life is hard
And so am I
You'd better give me something
So I don't die

Life is white
And I am black
Jesus and his lawyer
Are coming back

Guess who's living here with the great undead
This paint by numbers life is f***ing with my head, once again


2) November rain - by Guns N Roses

When I look into your eyes
I can see a love restrained
But darlin' when I hold you
Don't you know I feel the same

'Cause nothin' lasts forever
And we both know hearts can change
And it's hard to hold a candle
In the cold November rain

I know that you can love me
When there's no one left to blame
So never mind the darkness
We still can find a way
'Cause nothin' lasts forever
Even cold November rain


3) Estranged - By Guns N Roses


When you're talkin to yourself
And nobody's home
You can fool yourself
You came in this world alone
(Alone)

So nobody ever told you baby
How it was gonna be
So what'll happen to you baby
Guess we'll have to wait and see

When I find out all the reasons
Maybe I'll find another way
Find another day
With all the changing seasons of my life
Maybe I'll get it right next time

Well I jumped into the river
Too many times to make it home
I'm out here on my own, an drifting all alone
If it doesn't show give it time
To read between the lines
'Cause I see the storm getting closer
And the waves they get so high
Seems everything We've ever known's here
Why must it drift away and die...